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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • If “Go fuck yourself” is not your style or otherwise inadvisable, then another option is to start with “You will not call me that. You will call me by my name. Thank you.” Say this as calmly and evenly as you can. Keep saying it. Don’t let her rattle you into straying from this.

    If she insists, then pick a name to call her and insist on it no matter how much she objects. I doubt I need to suggest such a name, but rather I trust you to engage your creativity.

    Even so, I don’t have any objection to “go fuck yourself” if you think that wouldn’t put your job in jeopardy.

    Good luck. Peace.






  • If you are dissatisfied with the free thing I gave you, then I am happy to send you a refund of your purchase price. 🤷‍♂️

    That’s my preferred strategy.

    UPDATE: Before any angry cards and letters, let me clarify. When I reply this way, I learn a lot about the person I’m talking to, including whether they are prepared to have a reasonable conversation about this complex matter. The response I’m hoping for is “Well played.”, because that tells me that they recognize how ridiculous we are both being. I can work with them.

    If they are merely having a tough time and needed to vent, then they’ll notice that and we can move forward.

    If they are truly that entitled, then I don’t mind what happens next, because they would probably never have accepted any help I could offer them, anyway.