That’s part of why I still gave phone numbers and emails, despite both not being secure in any capacity; most people do have them, even if they’re not their preferred methods of communication.

I did lose a couple of people, but they were the ones I caught up with like… Once a year, anyway. Not that I didn’t value them as friends, but there comes a point where it’s like… I’m not missing a whole lot without you here, y’know. And it’s not like I had that many friends, either, I only have a handful of people I talk to regularly. Maybe 15-20 a month if we’re including friends of people I know who I see in passing?

I just at some point got tired of it and kinda just told everyone “I have an XMPP account, a signal account, a phone number, and an email address. You can use any of those to get in contact with me.” and they all picked one. Nobody picked email though xD

I haven’t managed to get Immich running on my server, so it’s more comparing the current Nextcloud memories app to the google photos app from about… A little over a year ago? I’m not sure about the web interface for memories, though, as I don’t really use it there

I’ve heard… Questionable things about the Kagi CEO that make me hesitant to give them money. I just don’t really use search engines for much anymore.

Not direct, but with Memories installed it’s near identical, and if you already have NC… May as well

We don’t currently have another way of enforcing this sort of thing, though, aside making software paid by default. How else will you convince a company that isn’t even concerned with its long-term growth in favor of quarterly earnings reports to pay money for free software? Especially when you consider that (at least in the US) that sort of thing could get them sued by their shareholders.

Frequently threats of legal action, backed by the ability to follow through on them, are enough to get most companies to fold, and pay. I don’t know that telemetry would be required in most cases, just because employees do talk, and usually publicly. I’m not sure if Unreal Engine does, but I can say with some certainty that WinRar didn’t, and most of their money was made through commercial licenses on nagware

Ultimate, the strictest one. I remember picking one down, but just pulled it up and it is the Ultimate blocklist

It did blend! Many times over the span of several hours (I watched… Most of that channel that day…)

It weirdly didn’t break every website? It said it might, but it ended up not. No idea how, or what I did. The only issue has been my room mate plays mobile games and some of those give ads for a benefit, so they can’t watch those.

I’m using HaGeZi’s block list (https://github.com/hagezi/dns-blocklists). Not saying it’ll work for everyone, but it doesn’t cause me any issues, even on the strictest one.

God I do have a weird relationship with it. I have adguard set up to block ads at the DNS level, I have adblockers on everything, and yet I spent the other night binge watching “Will it Blend?”

I’m fine with a lot, but there comes a point where it just feels… Less good than what I’m already using, and I don’t see why switching is worth it, which is where I was with XMPP and Matrix. Cinny seems promising, though

I use Cheogram on mobile, and on desktop I use Dino. I’ve also used Conversations on mobile, which is what Cheogram is a fork of. Cheogram has some extra features I wanted. Also Movim, but on mobile I’ve found the general consistency to be… Bad

Ahh, okay, we only started using Slack at work a couple of years ago, so I don’t remember the old UI

I use mailbox.org, and it’s been good. I used tutanota for a while, but the fact that I couldn’t use any email clients (they have their own now I’ve heard) made me switch. It’s also why I didn’t go with Proton, since you have to pay the $10/mo plan (I think) to do it with them.

The fact that it’s on YouTube enhances the joke, I feel

Someone else pointed out Cinny, which is… Pretty close to a discord replacement on Matrix, actually. Also I know Stoat mentioned a few federation options that they’d use if they ever do federate (not on the roadmap), with XMPP being the one it seemed like they’d favor.

Also ngl it doesn’t even seem like Matrix would be a good slack replacement, unless the UI you’re using makes it more slack-like

Re: Discord section, yeah… I liked discord at the start. It was mostly for voice calls, with a decent chat interface (based on IRC’s). Then it started getting used wildly inappropriately, which annoyed me, and then all of the horrific privacy stuff came up and it’s just… Ah. Whelp. This ship’s sinking fast.

Fluffy does have a separator for groups, but from what I can tell it does show all of the space group chats in there. Not a huge deal for me (I don’t use a lot of group DMs on discord), but will be for some friends

Schildi I’d need to redownload to check, but it had the same look as ElementX

Cinny, though… That’s promising. Thank you!

Yeah, that seems to be the big issue nowadays. Doesn’t matter if your friends use Google Calendar, they can send a link and I can subscribe to it with something else. Doesn’t matter if my friends use GDrive, I have Nextcloud. But discord? I can’t talk to my friends on XMPP unless they’re also on XMPP. There are bridges, but that still requires feeding every message to discord, which defeats the purpose. Also my friends would need to be the ones to set those up, and they are not.

Yeah, it is. It’s not what I intended with this, I did actually just wanna see if I was missing something, but I did figure it’d happen.

Yeah… I’d seen some stuff with that, just didn’t mention it because I hadn’t looked into it too hard. The one I’m trying is a fork of a rewrite of the original server software by unrelated devs. I did try Element, but there’s nothing on the server that I actually care about.