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Cake day: August 6th, 2023

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  • “Choose interesting jobs”

    THIS! A MILLION TIMES THIS!

    The absolute best career choices I’ve made, in hindsight, were always from the interest in the work or quality of whom I was working with.

    Took jobs for less pay, even turning down much higher offers, to choose the gig that was in the area I wanted to expand in.

    Never accept just based on “it’s a few bucks more”. Unless it’s twice the pay AND you have something else to gain from the role, always grab the better experience or less stressful spot.




  • Don’t let others control your life. If someone is only making you hurt, cut them off clean.

    This especially is for blood relations! Only scared old people say that shit about obeying your elders! If your family or immediate “friends” only use or abuse, get out fast!

    There’s always a place and tribe for you, don’t let assholes dictate who you are or “should be”.

    It took 30 years and most of my physical health to learn that one! Injured spine, nerve damage, financial issues … All from the group I grew up around being hideously toxic.

    I’ve been free of them for about 5 years now and am finally healing, both physically where I can and mentally. Financially too, just slower.

    I now have loving girlfriends, an amazing and healthy daughter, and I’ve been able to start reconnecting with the people that really clicked with me but were forced away by my family and their friends for being too different from them. I barely got a year and a half with my best friend I’d list touch with before he suddenly was diagnosed with and died from pancreatic cancer.

    Don’t waste your time on people who drain you with nothing to return! You and the people who improve you don’t have the time and energy to spare!





  • Ironically mine started without nefarious connotations… The family computer in the mid 80s was a minor novelty to me for ages, only good for simple text games really. Then…

    My brother grabbed a cracked game toward 1990 off a BBS. The game itself I don’t even remember, but it had a cracktro that stunned me. Graphics I’d never seen, actual music out our little adlib card… Was crazy enticing.

    Being stuck in the Midwest US while enamored with DemoScene is a hell of a drug. Every few kb down that modem was like crack.

    That then opened a new world of games as well… Things my older brother had no interest in. Things my parents obviously would not have allowed. You know… The Good Shit ™️.

    Obviously once codecs caught up video and audio quickly became a thing. My closest buddy and I would burn stack after stack of CDs to take a spindle at a time over to share between us and others.

    Then the data hoarding set in… What good is just having these shiny things for yourself when you can share? True joy doesn’t exist without spreading it to others.

    The sickness persists… Stronger than ever despite becoming a pessimistic old man. Multiple gigabit connections: check. 200tb arrays just for torrents: check. Seed times tracked in years: check.

    Remember when 14.4k was the most epic thing for grabbing those disks at lightning speed? I certainly do.