But a funny picture of a fat woman lying on a skinny man, is absolutely not acceptable.

Close, it was probably sexist.

Different communities are moderated by different people. Shocking, I know.

Isn’t that the whole draw of Lemmy and the fediverse?

Just make your own community. If people are interested in what you and stumu want to post, they’ll join.

Sounds like it might’ve been really degrading lol

That community allows a lot of fucked up posts and comments.

Why don’t you just start your own shitposting community?

You still have to follow instance rules though.

Yeah as a violinist, hitting the exact note was very much drilled into me. So having the guitar be so loose and free with pitches threw me for a loop haha

Have you tried mandolin? It’s just a violin with frets and doubled strings.

Oh now that is tempting to look into. Thanks for the suggestion!

I tried learning guitar once thinking that my skills at violin would translate well.

I remember how infuriated I felt when my partner explained that the guitar is more of a percussion instrument and that I wouldn’t really be able to hit all notes perfectly while playing hahahaha

Only posts about how she’s young and horny for old dudes. Totally legit though hahaha

No hun, it’s too risky to suggest anyone join tbh. Just be careful yourself!

With that way, it should be a safe group for cougars ( you can cover everything on your id but not your age, photo and name)

And safer for the younger people, too :)

Yeah there used to be a different instance for all the porn and such, but the admin couldn’t keep up with it. So the FediNSFW was created only a few months ago if my memory serves correctly. It HAS become much more active in those few months, so hopefully that growth continues!

There’s a fun questions/truth or dare community that has sorta the same feel as well, though I can’t remember the exact name of that community.

I’d suggest checking out the FediNSFW instance first. There are a few communities there that foster connecting like this!

I’m unsure about this user thus far. They’re new around here which doesn’t necessarily mean much, but you never know.

Thanks for the link! I’ll def check this out and see if I can pick up some new skills

But right now I am considering to put cooking from chores to hobby category in my mind.

That’s a great way to reframe cooking! When I’m feeling bored of it or am dreading cooking, sometimes picking out a new recipe helps me get excited about it again.

Be really strict with moderation. That kind of age-play group is ripe for predators, so you’ll want to be sure to protect the younger users to an extent. You also don’t want minors sneaking into the group and causing a lot of legal issues as well.

So yeah. Strict moderation is my advice.

I do my future self favors!

Oftentimes I may want to listen to a podcast or whatever, but don’t have anything specific to do with my hands. So I tend to tackle tasks that don’t get done daily - cleaning the microwave, folding and putting away the clean laundry, vacuuming, making my bed, weeding the garden, etc.

There’s always something that needs doing around the house. And it’s very calming and enjoyable to be able to come home to everything in it’s place and no weird smells from the kitchen haha

I think some of those cooking channels are more fetish content than rage bait. Like where the women are cooking but still have a bunch of rings on their hands and are getting super messy with the ingredients.

But yeah, similar to rage bait. Engagement is engagement.

Goals

I feel like Tilda Swinson falls into this category.

We can’t acknowledge that, then we wouldn’t be able to ignore her amazing discovery and make fun of her name instead!