either ignore it or use factual calm statements to lure out personal attacks and then report them. I got a bunch of people banned from reddit this way before I was banned for “threatening violence” in a comment where I didn’t threaten anyone at all, or mention any violent acts. Things are much calmer and more “adulty” here. Besides any political discussion of course.
It’s a modified Mad Men meme. Michael “I feel bad for you.” Don Draper “I don’t think about you at all.”
You hate them for what you think they are thinking about you. When in all reality they probably don’t think about you at all.
Unless they’ve directly attacked you or bullied or directed slurs at you, but that’s usually just 1 or 2 assholes, not a whole company of people.