For decades, I was my family’s whipping boy, caretaker, therapist, and problem solver. I know stories that could get people jailed for life, lose them their careers, and ruin their reputation. All in a little 2,000 person community, that I don’t think much of either.

My heart’s getting weak from all the bullshit.that’s happened to me over the years, and I would love for some tea to be spilled the birthday after my death. I know where all the community bodies are buried – thanks to sad people wanting to spill everything they know to quiet people.

Should I do it? How would you go about it, seeing as Facebook doesn’t have scheduled posts for individual accounts?

Stories include: rape, sexual assault, intense bullying, racism, homophobia, potential unsolved police cases, I could go on. All tea spilled to me by other people.

  • Sackett@thelemmy.club
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    6 hours ago

    If you have evidence of rape or unsolved major crimes you should report that to the police.

    Otherwise, it’s up to you. Personally, I wouldn’t. You would be dead, so you don’t get to feel like you “won”. And chances are your memory will be tarnished far more than the people you accuse, especially if they are still alive to defend themselves.

    If you really want to, I’m sure you could find a way to post on Facebook, but taking out a newspaper article or sending private letters post mortem would probably be easier to arrange.

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      4 hours ago

      Oh, I’m counting on it. That’s why I’m going to the grave before sending. My reputation is already tarnished in said small town. I literally have nothing to lose.

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    10 hours ago

    I probably wouldnt do that. It seems wrong to die then spill everyone’s secrets. If they are truely bad then action them now. But i dont know how.bad these people are.

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      8 hours ago

      They’re mine too. I served as unofficial counselor to numerous people in the community. Everybody come in, bitching about their problems and who did what in their families.

      I just sat there and listened.

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    11 hours ago

    I wouldn’t. I don’t use Facebook now, so why would I post anything to it upon my death?